Showing posts with label Lessons From Modesty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lessons From Modesty. Show all posts

Monday, May 28, 2012

Dressing Modestly Is.......

Posts In This Series
Modesty is Important
Is N*dity In Classic Art Okay (And Link Up)
Should Christians Wear Bathing Suits at All?
Immodest Women are Mean

It's funny most Christian women agree, modesty is important everyone just seems to have a different definition.  I'll reiterate what I said yesterday, God doesn't want us to sin, I truly believe if we genuinely seek God in this matter He will show us what is modest and what is not.  Our clothing is important to Him, and removing sin from our lives is important to him as well.

My series took a surprising turn after receiving some very unkind comments.  I appreciate how many people reached out to me, in real life and cyber space.  My mother and sister both offered to beat someone up for me, jokingly of course, and a woman from church who reads my blog pulled me aside and told me the sweetest thing.  I even had one cyber friend e-mail me directly just to make sure that the offending comment I mentioned wasn't her's.  It wasn't, but it blessed my heart.

So with great trepidation here are my final thoughts on modesty and I'll even attempt to open up the comments.


  • Dressing modestly doesn't mean you're a "Super Christian." (Proverbs 31:30)
  • Dressing modestly doesn't mean you've got everything else in your life figured out, just your clothes.  (1 Peter 3:3-4)
  • Dressing modestly doesn't mean you've arrived spiritually.  You still might struggle with anger, worry, or a hundred other sinful things.  (Proverbs 11:22)
  • Women who dress modestly shouldn't look down their nose on those who don't but........
  • Christian women shouldn't be afraid to take a stand for dressing modestly. (1 Timothy 2:8-10)
  • Dressing modestly isn't just about skirt length, not wearing or wearing slacks, or embracing the newest fashion trend.
  • Dressing modestly is about seeking God and desiring to honor Him through our clothing. (1Corinthians 10:31)
  • Dressing modestly is about  honoring and respecting our husbands (or father's for those unmarried) wishes in how we clothe our-self.
  • Dressing modestly is about keeping private that which is sacred, and being kind to the men around us by not causing them to stumble. (Matthew 5:28)
  • Dressing modestly................................. (Now it's your turn to fill in the blank)

I'm okay with differing views but just so you know, if your comment even starts to seem a little unkind, it will be deleted before I even finish reading it, so please don't bother.  Also, please remember I and anyone who comments are real people that exist in real life.  An unkind word can hurt, a lot, please be kind.




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Friday, May 25, 2012

Immodest Women are Mean



Posts In This Series
Modesty is Important
Is N*dity In Classic Art Okay (And Link Up)
Should Christians Wear Bathing Suits at All?
Immodest Women are Mean
Dressing Modestly Is....... (If you only read one post read this one)



So Yesterday I got a really mean comment, I mean really mean.  I've gotten rude comments before but this one went beyond attacking my belief system (that's fair game).  I've made the mistake of typing something in the heat of the moment before, but this comment was more than someone typing something in the heat of the moment it was calculated and cruel. It attacked me, my family, and my marriage.

The comment however did do one thing it underscored, why  I am doing this series.

Based on what this woman wrote I can only conclude she was a non-Christian.  Amid descriptive vulgarities, her comment came down to this:

"I wear my clothes (swimsuit) so men (like your husband) will lust after me."

This woman, however mean she was, get's it.  She understands that her clothing has the power to draw eyes and make men desire and lust after her, including other women's husbands!

Dressing this way to entice men is just plain mean.  It's mean to the men because the provocative dress is causing them to sin; and it's even meaner to their wives because their relationship is being robbed of purity and oneness when another person enters into her husband's thoughts.

Ladies, God doesn't want other men to sin when they look at you, and He doesn't want you to inadvertently be sinful because of what your wearing.  I truly believe if you earnestly seek this matter in prayer and study God will lead your modesty standards if you're willing to listen and change if needed.

I love long skirts and wear them most often but  I don't always wear them.  I'd like to think however  if God convicted my heart I would make the switch instantly.

We shouldn't choose our clothing to please men, we should choose it to please God.


I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.
 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
1 Timothy 2:8-10


This post didn't "go" where I wanted it to today so I'll be wrapping up my series on modesty next week, I hope you'll join me.

I've disabled commenting on these posts.....sigh some people, I've cried too much yesterday and today from personal attacks on my marriage and appearance.   I'm not playing the game any more.  It truly breaks my heart.  If this post has been a blessing to you since you can't comment would you mind sharing it via one of the buttons below?


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Thursday, May 24, 2012

Should Christians Wear Bathing Suits at All?

Posts In This Series
Modesty is Important
Is N*dity In Classic Art Okay (And Link Up)
Should Christians Wear Bathing Suits at All?
Immodest Women are Mean
Dressing Modestly Is.......(If you only read one post read this one)



In this series, we've looked at why modesty is important, and the sacredness of n*dity. Rather than jump right to what Christians should wear on a daily basis let's start out with the skimpiest thing most people will wear out in public.............

The Bathing Suit!!

Growing up my grandparents had a swimming pool so my family was always swimming.  I don't think any of us ever gave our bathing suits a second thought when we were just around family.  So believe me what I'm writing today does not come from a place of judgement.  I'm not here to tell you what to wear, I am by no means an authority on the issue.


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Believe it or not, the above picture would have been considered scandalous by some at the time.  Men and women swimming together?!

Tomorrow I'll be sharing a massive list of scriptures on modesty, but for now I'd like to simply pose a few questions for you to chew on when it comes to your swim-wear.

  • Would my father be comfortable seeing me in this.  If the answer is no, your suit might be immodest.
  • Is this something I would wear to the mall?  Think about it, what difference is there from what you wear on the beach to anywhere else in society?  Would you show that much thigh, cleavage, or back if you were going to the mall rather than the pool?
  • Am I wearing less because it helps me swim easier, or am I wearing less to get attention?
  • Is there a more private place to sunbathe?  If your main goal is tanning then a bikini might be your best  bet for an even tan but, that doesn't mean you need to tan in public.  (Coming from someone who has a family history of skin Cancer I'd much rather buy Jergen's Natural Glow anyway.)
  • Will this cause any man to stumble?  If the answer is yes, then don't wear it!  I am amazed at how many women look at this issue as "not my problem."  An attitude that says "I can wear whatever I want, you shouldn't be looking" is anything but kind.

So what do I wear at the beach?  A Simply Modest swimsuit, that I made myself from their pattern.  ( I removed my picture because I'm tired of feeling like I'm back in middle school again.  Oh and by the way, I wouldn't trade weighing 10 extra pounds for my three children, EVER!!!)

Quite frankly I love it, and I feel comfortable in it because there is no fear of being immodest.  There's no nagging guilt in my mind or need to cover up quickly when I get out of the water.  I'm free to have fun and free to enjoy myself.

So what do you think?  Forget bikinis, should Christians wear even a traditional swimsuit, or should they opt to cover up a little more?  I've shown you what I'm comfortable with, what about you?


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Monday, May 21, 2012

Is N*dity In Classic Art Okay (And Link Up)


Posts In This Series
Immodest Women are Mean
Dressing Modestly Is....... (If you only read one post read this one)



"And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were n*ked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons." Genesis 3:7

Yesterday I introduced the topic of modesty.  Before we start discussing bathing suits , skirt lengths, necklines and all that good stuff let's undress the issue fully ; )

 Is n*dity ever okay? (On a side note This post will be seasoned with asterix's otherwise my parental controls won't let me access my own blog. I promise there is nothing salacious.)

 Is n*dity okay on the ceilings of renaissance cathedrals? Is it okay in the great sculptures of Michelangelo? Is it okay on ancient Greek pottery? Is it okay in an artist's sketch book?

It's interesting to note that traditionally heathen cultures had a lot of n*dity and depictions of "relations" in their artwork.  But time after time, whenever Christianity would reach a new group of people that type of artwork would begin to disappear from the culture.

Christianity would introduce the sacredness of n*dity and the marriage act to the groups of people they evangelized.  It no longer was something found on common dinner ware for the world to see.

So why is it that sometimes we have blinders on when it comes to modesty?  Does it really matter who painted the canvas if it's showing something that should be private?

Does it truly matter, the wonderful use of color and perspective?  Just because something is labeled as art doesn't mean it's appropriate.

There is a reason why Adam and Eve were ashamed of their bodies when sin entered the world. There is a reason why God gave Adam and Eve clothing.

Yes I realize God created a beautiful thing in the human physique, and I realize it has been celebrated throughout history in art, but  a sin filled world has temptation and shame.  What was very good is now not only tainted but is also able to make others stumble.

I don't mean this post to be legalistic, but I do want to challenge the belief that n*dity is okay when it's classic art.  I realize not everyone will agree with me, and I would love to hear what you think.  (Keep the discussion nice)

Be sure to leave a comment and link up some of your own posts below.  And be sure to come back to read the rest of this series. (Subscribe)

I've disabled commenting on these posts.....sigh some people, I've cried too much yesterday and today from personal attacks on my marriage and appearance.   I'm not playing the game any more.  It truly breaks my heart.  If this post has been a blessing to you since you can't comment would you mind sharing it via one of the buttons below?

I had some links get stuck in moderation limbo last week, this week I won't be moderating but I'm still too paranoid for thumbnails.  Here are the posts you might have missed:





And one post that's on topic : ) Making Clothing More Modest

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Modesty is Important

Posts In This Series
Modesty is Important
Is N*dity In Classic Art Okay (And Link Up)
Should Christians Wear Bathing Suits at All?
Immodest Women are Mean
Dressing Modestly Is....... (If you only read one post read this one)


"In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;"
1 Timothy 2:8-10 


Modesty........

I led a Bible study one time when I was in college about modesty that caused an uproar from the girls on campus.  Girls who weren't at the Bible study were so upset at how judgmental we were being.  Had they attended the Bible study they would have realized the spirit in which this issue was addressed, but the grape vine is so much more interesting when details are left out.

Many of the girls seemed to take the stance that it was no ones right to tell them how to dress.  And yet scriptures are anything but silent on the issue of modesty.

Since the weather is getting warmer, and clothes are getting smaller, I'm going to take a few days and look at the issue of modesty and standards.  We'll examine n*dity, bathing suits, and every day clothing.

If our modesty wasn't important it wouldn't be in the Bible.

This series will not be about pants vs skirts.  It will not be about bikinis and traditional swimsuits, it will not be a list of what I think you should wear.

What this series will be about is our hearts, yielding to what God says and not the standards of men. Modesty isn't just about what we wear.

This week we'll be looking at some different aspects of modesty.  We'll look at pants vs skirts, swimsuits, dance classes for little girls, and a handful of other things that might be a touch controversial.  But it really isn't my place to tell you what's modest and what isn't, but more on that thought later : )

So, before we begin:  What are your thoughts on modesty?  Have you ever been in a situation where it's needed to addresses?  Where it's become a controversy?  Are you trying to teach modesty to your daughters?

I've disabled commenting on these posts.....sigh some people, I've cried too much yesterday and today from personal attacks on my marriage and appearance.   I'm not playing the game any more.  It truly breaks my heart.  If this post has been a blessing to you since you can't comment would you mind sharing it via one of the buttons below?


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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Modesty, Teach it Now!

(If you're a mom concerned about modesty, be sure to check out my Simply Modest Giveaway going on now and enter!)

Modesty and discretion are not hallmarks of the average teenage or young adult woman, which is highly unfortunate.  If we as mother's think we can convince our daughters to dress modestly after they reach adolescence (when most mothers become Highly Motivated because of their young daugters developing curves) we are kidding ourselves.

My family tends to avoid public events this time of year because of the way women dress when it get's this warm outside.  The renaissance festival used to be a favorite summer time activity for us, but we no longer go because of what the guests where when they attend.  It's maddening!

So, how do we teach our girls modesty?

By teaching them scriptures about womanhood and modesty, and have them memorize at a young age.

By modeling it in our own lives, and not inadvertantly living by a double standard 

By dressing them modestly at a young age.

By holding the same standards everywhere your family travels, including the dreaded beaches and swimming pools.

By Praying for wisdom in raising our daughters, praying that they will come to view modesty as a desired virtue.  Only God can change hearts, our prayers are our greatest ally when the world is trying to define what beauty is.

I think I'm done ranting for now, I've seen more flesh this week than I care to see in a lifetime.  It's time to start the fight on the home front.  I refuse not to be proactive in this!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Simply Modest Swimsuit Pattern (Closed)

Giveaway Closed, Congrats Comment #21 Caroline


Staying modest is incredibly important to me, particularly when swimming.  Let's face it it's next to impossible to find a truly modest bathing suit anywhere in stores! So what do we do, pull on bulky basketball shorts, and an over sized tee-shirt? It works if I want to stay modest but what happens if I want to be feminine too?

That's why I am so thrilled to be reviewing (and Giving Away!) a swimsuit pattern (or $20 discount on a swimsuit) from Simply Modest.

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I absolutely fell in love with these suits when I first saw them, not only are they beautiful but they are something I can be proud to wear as a Christian women.

As soon as my girls are big enough this is the type of swimsuit I'm making them one,  so they can get used to the idea of modesty when swimming NOW, rather than when they're adolescents.

And the pattern? So Easy!   I am by no means an accomplished seamstress and I was able to make my swimsuit in a few hours, it would have been faster but Mommy duty called multiple times during the process. This is by no means an intimidating project, the instructions are very clear and there's no "tricky" parts you have to worry about. (I did cut my suit generously in some places because of a baby bump)



I absolutely love how it turned out, and it seriously was that easy to make.

(you can tell I don't get much sun even if the suit is modest, don't look directly at my arms you'll go blind!)



Here are some more fabulous pictures from their website
(with slightly tanner girls),
 I absolutely love these fabric choices!

Simply Modest sells everything you would need to make your own swimsuit, but if you'd rather not take the time for this incredibly simple project they do sell absolutely beautiful Swimsuits in children's and ladies sizes,
or custom ordered sizes (including maternity).
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You can easily cut the skirts and leggings as long or as short as you would like.

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My sister put it best when she saw the swimsuit pattern, she said,
" If I had a suit like that I'd actually want to go to the beach."

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Saturday, April 9, 2011

Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB) a cult?



Never in my life have a seen a piece of reporting that could be so incredibly damaging to the body of Christ.  As Christians, even if you are not part of a Baptist Church, we should be infuriated with the "investigative report" last night on ABC's 20/20.  They did everything in their power to undermine a branch of Christianity, thereby undermining all of Christianity and Biblical teaching.  My  post What Is A Cult? will give you some idea what I base my definitions on in this post.

According to 20/20 last night I've been affiliated with a cult for quite some time now and didn't even realize it.  Wow, I wish some one would have told me sooner.  Now my husband can stop trying to get ordained through said cult, and we can move on with our lives a happier and more stable family.  (end sarcasm)

Seriously though, if you didn't catch 20/20, I don't recommend watching this particular episode, and quite frankly if this is the type of reporting that they consider balanced, and investigative, I recommend skipping the show permanently.  The episode took a look at the secret "cult" that is lurking in most communities in the United States, the "Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches."  Most people don't even realize they're in their own neighborhoods! Gasp!  (Okay, my sarcasm is over now I promise)

My biggest problem with the program wasn't the fact that they exposed several church scandals, cover-ups, and child abuse.  I'm OK with that, if a youth pastor takes advantage of a young girl he should be in jail, not defended by a church who accuses the same young girl publicly of adultery while slapping the youth pastor on the wrists.  (just one example from their report) Unfortunately child abuse happens, it's sickening and we as the body of Christ should be mournful when it does occur.  In this day and age Clergy in my opinion need better training on handling these situations when they do arise, because it does touch so many people, therefore churches across America.

The part of this piece of "investigative reporting" that infuriated me was the fact that the Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches were repeatedly called a cult, by those who managed to "escape."  Perhaps the churches they attended were more "cultish" than the Baptist churches I've attended, but the reasons they gave for the "IFB" as it was so ominously called, being a cult were laughable at best.

One reason sited was the fact that the "IFB" (which arguably sounds more cultish than just plain Baptist) "takes the Bible literally."  The way it was said in the news story made my skin crawl, it was said in a scathing tone and context.  I suppose if taking the Bible literally, not adding anything to it or taking anything away makes me a part of cult, then shave my head and pass the kool-aid. (Scratch the shaving the head part, a woman's hair is her glory you know)

Another reason sited that the IFB, was a cult is because of all the rules the churches have, including standards of dress. (gasp!)  I realize in this day in age modesty is a strange thing to the world but seriously, this is a reason you say the IFB is a cult, is because most churches prefer women wear longish skirts and cover any exposed cleavage?! I suppose we should instead dress the way society deems normal and titillate any man that may enter the congregation.

According to 20/20 the IFB is also a cult because women are supposed to be subordinate to men, and the man has no one to answer to.  I suppose this one goes back to taking the Bible literally, a man is supposed to be the head of the house according to several places in scripture. Although 20/20 conveniently left out the fact that a man is supposed to love his wife so much he would be willing to sacrifice everything including his life for her, and the fact that he will be held accountable to God for his actions on earth, but what do I know I'm just a part of a cult.

Finally the crux of the report was that Baptist churches regularly support and preach on child-abuse.  I have in the past heard preachers say that there is nothing wrong with spanking, and legally in most states this is NOT considered child-abuse.  Even though 20/20 managed to find some extreme preachers who advocated much more severe forms of discipline than a simple "fanny whack" I believe they would be hard pressed to find even 5% of "IFB" preachers felt the same way if they did a simple survey.  But honestly why would they take the time to do that when they can just play the same sermon clips from the same handful of preachers over and over making it seem like all Baptist preachers advocate beating a child until he bruises.

In 20/20's "defense" they did interview a more moderate, read typical, Baptist pastor who insisted these Baptist churches were the extreme and not typical of all Independent Baptist churches, who by nature aren't even affiliated with one another.  I did consider what this Pastor said to be very eloquent and surprised 20/20 didn't edit most of it out, but let's be for-real one voice of reason in a 60 minute Baptist bashing piece isn't sufficiently fair reporting.  Also at the very end of the piece they tried to discredit everything the man said by pointing out he had 2 registered sex offenders in the congregation.

 The fact of the matter is sex offenders need church too, they certainly shouldn't be working with children, and parents should be aware of their presence. Thanks to  Internet databases they can be without the need for public embarrassment, and all parents with any age children should check these databases often.  People however shouldn't be excommunicated from a church if they are repentant.  Whether or not these men were repentant I don't know, but if past transgressions were the  test for joining a church, our churches would have no members.
 Had 20/20 truly wanted to be fair they should have found a baptist pastor who didn't have a registered sex offender in his congregation (which is most Baptist pastors) but I have a hunch they weren't going for fair when they selected this pastor just sensational.

Child abuse, neglect, and sexual abuse happen, and unfortunately Christians are not immune to their affects and presence, but instead of showing the "IFB" as a cult which fosters this kind of activity, why not compare statistics to the rest of the general population.  I have a feeling they might be similar.  20/20 could have also shown child abuse in other religions, Islam, Buddhism, or  Hinduism,  but that wouldn't have been politically correct, would it?

 What is politically correct however is vilifying churches that teach the Bible is the inherent word of God, and Jesus is the only way to heaven. If society succeeds in making these beliefs look like the beliefs of a cult, then Satan has won a victory indeed.

When the interviewer Elizabeth was told by an "expert" that Baptist's think their doctrine is the only correct one, she looked shocked and repulsed.  Let's be honest, you should think you're church's doctrine is the only correct one! If church A says yes and church B says no there is no way they can both be right. 

I however have never met a Baptist preacher (although I'm sure there's some out there) who would  say if you're not a member of a Baptist church you're not saved, I supposse that teaching would be somewhat cultish. What I have encountered from the literally dozens if not hundreds of Baptist preachers I've met and listened to (I attended and work for a Baptist college so I encounter more Baptist preachers than the average girl) is that if you don't have Jesus, you're not saved.  Which is by definition exclusionary.  It's Jesus' work of salvation that saves us not attending a specific church. Again 20/20 chose the extreme preachers instead of the typical ones, in order to make it look like any church that takes a stand on correct doctrine must be a cult.

Hopefully most people will see the 20/20 report for what it was, sensational reporting.   Hopefully most people will see the child abuse as  a reflection on society and not Christianity as a whole.  I pray the next time I invite someone to church I won't be met with the response, "Oh you mean the cult over there by the rail road tracks."  I don't doubt there have been people who have suffered abuse from Independent Fundamental Baptist parents and pastors, but unfortunately abuse is present in every facet of society, whether it bears the name Baptist or not.

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After reading some comments I would like to make myself clear. I have no problem exposing sex offenders, and child abusers, in fact if anything prevents more children from being abused I think it should be done.  It truly makes me sick what has happened to some within the church. People (children) are abused in every walk of life not just Baptist churches.  It's shameful and shouldn't happen, how things were handled in these churches was wrong, ABC went too far when they made it out like ALL Baptist churches were like this.  1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys will be sexually abused before they reach the age of 18.  This is HORRIBLE!!!  Let's work on fixing this problem as a whole.
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After 40 respectful comments of differing opinions one finally made it's way into my inbox that was just plain vulgar, for that reason and the fact that I don't have time to continue moderating and responding to comments I am closing them for this post.  I do however think a very good discussion follows and if you're still unclear on my stance I think my response to many of the comments clarify things.

This isn't one of my "normal" blog posts.  I try to keep things encouraging and not inflammatory. But as a Baptist and Christian I just had to respond to this report. If you're a woman looking for daily encouragement I invite you to join me more regularly here.


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Saturday, February 5, 2011

My Week in Review


I had wanted to write more this week, but my lack of energy (and general apathy) has prevented this.  Hopefully I'll be feeling more myself next week.  In the mean time here are some things you may enjoy.

The Scripture That has blessed me this week:

28Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding.
 29He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.
 30Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:
 31But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Isaiah 40:28-31

Posts I've enjoyed this week:
Instructions for a Fabulously Easy Skirt (I whipped one of these up during my girls nap times)

How to Start Teaching Homemaking Skills  (Even to itty bitties)

A Truly G-Rated Post about Intimacy in Marriage (One of my favorite Blogs in general, with this post Courtney says all the things about intimacy I would say but would be far too embarrassed to post because my mother reads this! )

Practical Ways to Love Intentionally (Based on the Love Dare, from the movie Fire Proof,  which by the way did you know that the one kiss Kirk Cameron and his on screen wife shared in that movie was shot in such a way that he wasn't actually kissing the actress who played the wife for the whole movie, but his wife in real life.)

A Wise Woman Builds Her Home: Don't Be Robbed (Another one of my favorite Blogs)

Motivation to Throw Things Out!
Teaching Modesty to Very Young Girls

Month Full Of Homemaking Tips!

That's my week in a glance, leave a comment if you've come across a great post or website this week.  Leave your own, I don't care, and I won't think your vain either.  I love finding new blogs especially if they're like minded.

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